Comments for Life, Multiplied http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com Dissociative Identity Disorder, personified Wed, 08 May 2013 06:21:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ Comment on Sociopathic Blindness (A letter to my father) by lifemultiplied http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/2013/04/30/sociopathic-blindness-a-letter-to-my-father/#comment-1447 Wed, 08 May 2013 06:21:10 +0000 http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/?p=2468#comment-1447 P.S. Now I’m smiling through my tears. :-)

]]> Comment on Sociopathic Blindness (A letter to my father) by lifemultiplied http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/2013/04/30/sociopathic-blindness-a-letter-to-my-father/#comment-1446 Wed, 08 May 2013 06:20:52 +0000 http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/?p=2468#comment-1446 Grace, I’m in tears from what you wrote. Your words always mean so much to me. I’m blessed to know you too! I hate that everything you’re going through right now is made so much worse by what you lived through as a child. You are an inspiration, Grace. I realize you don’t really feel that way but I also know I’m not the only one who believes it.
Nothing but love right back at you! ♥♥♥♥

]]> Comment on Sociopathic Blindness (A letter to my father) by Grace http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/2013/04/30/sociopathic-blindness-a-letter-to-my-father/#comment-1445 Wed, 08 May 2013 05:08:08 +0000 http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/?p=2468#comment-1445 I did not make it though reading that without crying. Just knowing you all these years and seeing how much you’ve grown- my gosh- you’re simply amazing!!!! I am so blessed to know know you. To see the healing that is possible. The love you’ve shown me and others. You are amazing. An inspiration to others.
Nothing but love for you!!!!!

]]> Comment on Sociopathic Blindness (A letter to my father) by lifemultiplied http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/2013/04/30/sociopathic-blindness-a-letter-to-my-father/#comment-1444 Thu, 02 May 2013 02:33:20 +0000 http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/?p=2468#comment-1444 Thanks for that reminder, Carol. It helps to have people say it sometimes. :-)

]]> Comment on Sociopathic Blindness (A letter to my father) by lifemultiplied http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/2013/04/30/sociopathic-blindness-a-letter-to-my-father/#comment-1443 Thu, 02 May 2013 02:32:09 +0000 http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/?p=2468#comment-1443 Thanks, Beauty. Your encouragement always means so much to me, as you know. You know me well enough to be able to say those things and I really appreciate it.

]]> Comment on Sociopathic Blindness (A letter to my father) by Carol http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/2013/04/30/sociopathic-blindness-a-letter-to-my-father/#comment-1442 Wed, 01 May 2013 16:40:45 +0000 http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/?p=2468#comment-1442 On the other hand, or perhaps the same hand, Kali, you have enriched my life substantially. Just so ya know.

]]> Comment on Sociopathic Blindness (A letter to my father) by beautifuldreamer http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/2013/04/30/sociopathic-blindness-a-letter-to-my-father/#comment-1441 Tue, 30 Apr 2013 14:35:10 +0000 http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/?p=2468#comment-1441 This is a painfully brave letter, and too bad your dad will never read it. Or that if he did, he wouldn’t get it, not in a million years.

The absolute blindness of our abusers is frustrating, sad and insulting. To set in motion such a world of hurt and be oblivious to the damage done…well, I can’t even imagine being that kind of person.

What your dad didn’t manage to take from you is your ability to feel. He didn’t rob you of compassion for your kids and your extended family. His actions didn’t cause your heart to harden. And just look at you, saying no to cutting because you know it will make things worse! Or considering ending therapy.

All along the way, it seems, you’ve been healing and making progress: a bit here and a bit there. You should be able to have more to look forward to than not cutting, and I believe that time will come for you. I believe that as you steadfastly refuse to play the victim while you continue facing up to the damage done to you, you will continue to strengthen and bloom into the unique, beautiful person you were created to be.

I admire you so much for your courage and your heart. I’m glad you wrote this blog post because this too will contribute to your healing.

]]> Comment on I Think I May Be Done by beautifuldreamer http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/2013/04/21/i-think-i-may-be-done/#comment-1440 Mon, 22 Apr 2013 13:05:40 +0000 http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/?p=2466#comment-1440 Oh man, it’s always sad to see a fellow blogger call it quits. But I understand. I’ve done it myself before–though I ended up changing my mind. Like you I reached a point where I felt I didn’t have a whole lot to say…but as time went on I began to feel the need again to express myself, so the blog continued.

I’m glad you’re not deleting Life, Multiplied. Hope you change your mind, but I know you’ll do what’s best for you. And you’re always welcome to stop by my blog any old time you feel like it!

]]> Comment on Growth in Dreams by lifemultiplied http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/2013/03/04/growth-in-dreams/#comment-1438 Sun, 10 Mar 2013 03:06:58 +0000 http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/?p=2464#comment-1438 Thanks so much, G! So much love to you.

]]> Comment on Growth in Dreams by Grace http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/2013/03/04/growth-in-dreams/#comment-1437 Sat, 09 Mar 2013 15:30:19 +0000 http://lifemultiplied.wordpress.com/?p=2464#comment-1437 Excellent work! I see so much growth in you in the past few years, it’s amazing. So thrilled for all of you! I know you’ve worked so very hard. You deserve the best my dear friend!
<3 g

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